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The character truest to itself becomes eccentric rather than immovably centered, as Emerson defined the noble character of the hero. At the edge, the certainty of borders gives way. We are more subject to invasions, less able to mobilize defenses, less sure of who we really are, even as we may be perceived by others as a person of character. The dislocation of self from center to indefinite edge merges us more with the world, so that we can feel “blest by everything.”
James Hillman
James Hillman
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Mon, October 19, 2009 - 12:21 PMAnd the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. = Anais Nin
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Mon, October 19, 2009 - 1:54 PMashleigh, could you share what that quote means to you? i am finding it a little confusing. is it saying that when someone is most themself, then they become off balance? or that being centered is too limiting and we should live at the edge? i don't get it. perhaps it is from a larger context?
i do love the anais nin quote, queenie, it very clearly cuts to an understanding of the inevitability of taking on challenges and change.
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Mon, October 19, 2009 - 2:31 PMJames Hillman is a transpersonal psychologist, if that helps at all. It is about the hero's journey.
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Mon, October 19, 2009 - 2:54 PMI also think it has to do with the little self becoming one with the bigger self. Or the no-self , like in Buddhism. And how the edges of being a self get blurred at the edge, the edge of enlightenment or the edge of consciousness, any edge really. Living at that edge point as a human, things change . Most people never go through it. It is the hero's journey and not for everyone.
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Mon, October 19, 2009 - 2:53 PMAnais nin just seems to resonate with me a lot. She was certainly a free spirit and a character. -
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Mon, October 19, 2009 - 2:56 PMrun in circles too fast and you'll get dizzy so run in bigger ones.... freewil -
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Mon, October 19, 2009 - 3:03 PMI think James Hillman is trying to describe what happens when the truest self emerges. He also thinks that that is what the hero's journey is about, emerging true self. That's what I get at least.
I'm reading a lot of James Hillman right now and he's trippy to say the least. I love it though. -
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Mon, October 19, 2009 - 3:07 PMI had heard that from Anais Nin but didn't know it was her. It comes up in therapy a lot about how people wait until the pain of staying the same is so bad that they have to change. But maybe we can move beyond that someday and let change happen in us as it happens. Why do we resist so much? What is there to hold onto that seems so important? It has to do with self, and my quote about self. This solid self doesn't exist really. But we try to hold onto it anyway. -
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Tue, October 20, 2009 - 12:44 AMThe only way past it is through it. -Ekhart Tolle
Don't worry about declaring professions or majors. Insects specialize. Do you want to be an insect? - Robert Anton Wilson
It's time to Nut Up or Shut Up!- Woody Harrelson
I bow to the divine in you, I marvel at the creation in you, I gaze at the beauty in you...
but I'm really just here for the Happy Hour Nachos! -- Me~
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Tue, October 20, 2009 - 11:44 AMit is weird how sometimes if we hold on too tight, life just "cracks" us open because we are meant to be flowing beings and we get scared and hold on so tightly.
It would be nice to make shifts and changes that are for our highest good without having to be hit by a mac truck.
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Mon, October 19, 2009 - 2:52 PMis it talking about how being open and flexible is more of a hero's journey. If you are closed off and rigid it is impossible to flow with things?
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Tue, October 20, 2009 - 2:20 PM"it's never too late to have a happy childhood" - irish proverb :o))
"today is the best day of my life"
"carpe diem"
“what the caterpillar calls a tragedy, the master calls a butterfly.” - richard bach
"I've heard people say that they cling to their painful thoughts
because they're afraid that without them they wouldn't be activists for peace.
“If I feel peaceful,” they say, “why would I bother taking action at all?”
My answer is “Because that's what love does.”
To think that we need sadness or outrage
to motivate us to do what's right is insane.
As if the clearer and happier you get, the less kind you become.
As if when someone finds freedom, she just sits around all day
with drool running down her chin.
My experience is the opposite.
Love is action." - Byron Katie
love
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Tue, October 20, 2009 - 4:21 PMOh Kaalii
I get happy just to see your icon ( and contributions ) in my posts. I think when I meet Ryan Gosling we will come to see you.
And when you meet Josh Homme you must stop by. You can have a vacation at my place in LA.
Yes, Carpe Dime, we are doing it.
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Tue, October 20, 2009 - 5:58 PMyou can't fight for peace
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Mon, October 26, 2009 - 11:30 AMNothing is truly vacant, even an empty glass holds a void. -
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Mon, October 26, 2009 - 10:30 PMLife shrinks or expands according to one's courage
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Tue, October 27, 2009 - 5:29 PMI would add that life expands according to our courage to love. That we have to love something to know it, and knowing is expanding.
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Tue, November 3, 2009 - 4:45 PM"And this above all
unto thine own self be true
and it shall follow as the day the night
thou can'st not then be false to any man"
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Wed, November 4, 2009 - 10:15 AMWe are all what we pretend to be. So we must be very careful about who we pretend to be.
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Wed, November 4, 2009 - 1:52 PMlf you would ask freedom, grant freedom -
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Thu, November 5, 2009 - 5:32 AMBen Franklin - Those who would trade liberty for safety, find neither.
Kurt Vonnegut - Do one thing that scares you, every day! -
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Thu, November 5, 2009 - 9:15 AMI think it's actually " Those who would give up essential liberty to purchase a little temporary safety, deserve neither liberty nor safety"
The deserving part is important.
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Thu, November 5, 2009 - 10:08 AM"The secret of change is not in fighting the old, but in building the new."
-Socrates
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Sat, November 7, 2009 - 4:08 AM“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” - Mark Twain
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Thu, November 12, 2009 - 6:56 PM"The emotions of faith, love, and sex, when mixed with any thought impulse, give it greater action than any of these emotions do singly."
Napoleon Hill
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Sat, November 21, 2009 - 9:17 AM
"It is the child in man that is the source of his uniqueness and creativeness, and the playground is the optimal milieu for the unfolding of his capacities and talents."
-- Eric Hoffer
abundancemanifest.tribe.net/phot...0ec9d
www.youtube.com/watch
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Sun, November 22, 2009 - 9:58 PM"Nothing is true and everything is permissable". Peter Carroll